In general terms we all like to be shown love and affection in one way or the other but "some" guys sure do know how to make their girl feel loved and wanted. But on the other hand some girl have to be taught or tutored on how they could please their spouse to make them feel loved also. Because as the saying goes, "what goes around comes back around". So Ladies these are some ways you could surprise your boyfriend to make him say, ''SURE SHE IS THE ONE''.
Cook him a meal
Plan a delicious dinner for him on an
ordinary night and call him over as a matter of course. Make it a
full-blown romantic affair with candles, flowers and soft music. Your
boyfriend will be surprised by the lovely dinner and pleased that you
have made the effort for him. However, don’t attempt something that you
can’t carry off smoothly, as it will not serve the purpose if you get
hassled and exhausted. Let there be only one main course, if you wish,
but make sure you both have a good time during and after the dinner.
Send him flowers at work
Let
your boyfriend start off for his workplace, without any hint of what is
coming up. And then around mid-day, have the biggest bunch of his
favourite flowers delivered to him at his office. He is sure to be
pleasantly surprised and loudly cheered by his co-workers.
Get tickets to his favourite game
So
you can’t bear the thought of your boyfriend spending time with his
mates at a ballgame, while you think up nicer things to do together at
home! Just this once, let things go his way and surprise him with two
tickets to the game that you know he has been dying to catch. What’s
more, zap your guy by happily agreeing to go with him and have a good
time.
Ask his parents over
Choose an ordinary weekend
to invite his parents, or any other cherished members of his family, to
your home. Make them feel really welcome and cook them a nice hot
lunch. Your boyfriend will be surprised at finding his family at your
place and enjoying the weekend. But more than that, he will greatly
appreciate your gesture, which shows respect for his family.
Welcome him at the door
Put
on your sexiest evening dress and get ready to welcome him, with a
glass of champagne in your hand as he returns home after work. Wait for
the doorbell to ring and when you are sure he is alone, open the door
and say something romantic. He is sure to wonder for a moment if he is
at the right house!
Surprise him with a gift
Buy something that he may have once mentioned that he would like to
have. It may be something as simple as a new camera or a favourite book.
Or, it may be something special, like a set of custom-made golf clubs
or a classy watch. Whatever your budget, just make sure that it would
mean a lot to your boyfriend to possess that item.
Change your appearance
Decide
to meet him on a date. But before you do so, visit your hairstylist and
go for a radically different hairstyle. Complete the makeover with
clothes and accessories that you have never tried before. This is not to
say that you need to make a spectacle of yourself, only that you could
give your boyfriend a huge surprise, by turning up with a completely new
look.
Write a love poem for him
Put down your
emotions in a romantic poem for your boyfriend. He will be surprised and
touched to receive a message that you have composed yourself. Don’t
worry if the poem doesn’t rhyme – it should just be romantic and
sincere.
Act out his fantasy
If you know what your
boyfriend fantasizes about in bed, you could try acting it or just a
part of it out. Of course, this holds good only if you are comfortable
doing what he desires. Otherwise, read up on unusual but fun ways of
making love and go all out to surprise him. Make innovative use of
melted chocolate, silk scarves and stuffed cushions, and he won’t know
what hit him!
Throw a surprise party
Invite your
boyfriend’s best pals, without his knowing, and make arrangements for a
party. It would be ideal if you could choose to do this on his birthday,
in which case, don’t wish him the whole day and act as though you have
forgotten his special day. Otherwise, any other day would do just as
well, to surprise him with a party. Make sure that his favourite music
is on and the dishes are ones that he loves best. Wait till he reaches
the door, then turn out the lights and hide all the guests. As soon as
your boyfriend enters, switch on the lights and yell, “Surprise”.
Now,
you know that one of the best ways to spice up your love life would be
to spring a nice surprise on your boyfriend. Not only will he love what
you have to offer, but the element of fun and something unexpected, will
jolt your relationship out of the daily routine and help the two of you
to rediscover your love for each other.
So, the next time you
wonder how things came to get so monotonous between you two, take the
first step and surprise your boyfriend with something fun or interesting
to do. Watch how his eyes light up in pleasure and laughter and believe
me, your love will be the healthier for it.

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